I found out a lot about real friendship this week, and although it meant a bit of mental re-arrangement of relationships, it was really valuable. I realised what an unbalanced relationship I had been part of for quite some time, and it had been getting at me. This week was more the last straw than any spectacular event. Honestly, it was a case of me giving until I could give no more, then asking a favour and being slapped back with a pathetic reason.
Makes me feel lucky that I do have a lot a great friends, because the older I get the more that you guys mean.
Speaking of good friends, Tracy - Sorry, not on email much for the next few days. But I think your package to me must have been on that ill-fated NZ Post flight, because I've seen hide nor hair of it. :( boo! Sorry mate. Fate sucks.
(Don't hit me, Fate! I was just kidding. Seriously, you're great. Doing great things.)
Bush Vows to Fight Until Terrorists' Defeat
See, one of the problems with being brought up rich means that you've never had to personally battle ants, moths, cockroaches etc. Sure, there are bugs in the scrub on his ranch, but I don't think he sets his own roach traps. If he did, he might be a little more cautious about that statement. The terrorists are a loose, ill-defined conglomerate of 'evil-doers' from the IRA to the Tamil Tigers to Saddam Hussein and Fidel Castro. How on earth can anyone vow to defeat terrorism? It's like vowing to rid the earth of fire.
Bush should rid the States of the KKK if he wants to deal with terrorism.
Just like Britain and the US ended slavery - a long slow fight but with a clear vision: that noone is inherently worth less than anyone else, and that being a chattel is not compatible with that principle.
Islamic terrorism is a death cult - and if you value freedom and life, you shouldn't be so keen on criticisng the stumbling steps of those to whom it has fallen to deal with these horrors.
Posted by: bossie at July 12, 2005 09:46 PMIt's hard to tell if you are being sarcastic or not. US and Britain didn't stop slavery from some sense of humane ideaology. Read this book:
Slavery - A World History, by Milton Meltzer.
And then we can discuss it.
The British ended slavery when it became economically unimportant for them to be involved.
Labour needs in Britain changed as planters reinvested West Indies profits in factories at home, and therefore needed to employ British. So although the colonial planters feared abolition would ruin them, the new industrial leaders of England didn't care, and were ready to take the abolishionists' moral high-ground.
And the Civil War had numerous economic and ideological threads to it, but both Jefferson and Lincoln owned numerous slaves and concubines.
Hmmm - book title swapping and non sequiturs.
Non sequitur: the 'vision' was essentially civilisational, not personal. So the failings of individuals to live up to an impossible ideal in the context of the times, does not invalidate the notion (which has its roots in the Reformation meme of a personalised Saviour) of individuals' inherent worth.
Books for your delectation:
Herman: How the Scots invented the Modern world
Huntington: The Clash of Civilisations
Rodger: The command of the ocean : a naval history of Britain
Niebuhr: Nations and empires : recurring patterns in the political order
As one gets older, the worth of a wide reading in history (which after all is the outcome of human nature in all its glory and depravity) becomes more and more apparent. Keep reading and learning.
Posted by: bossie at July 13, 2005 10:39 AMhey hon, hope you are doing ok. Sounds like its been a bit rough. Email me!! Or I worry!
Posted by: sok at July 13, 2005 09:15 PMBut of course, the main point about Bush is that he tends to make statements that are, well, overstated.
No-one can vow to defeat terrorism (and expect to actually do so) anymore than a person can realistically expect to defeat war, violence, hunger, death and so on. Most of these things depend on an abscence of something. Peace can only exist until the next violent act, but I can keep up the violent acts forever. Same thing with hunger - you will be hungry unless I give you food.
Do you see what I mean? Statements vowing to crush "evil" or "evil-doers" or to defeat terrorism just make the guy look like a hurt teenager.
I've read Huntington and Rodger, but I will hunt out the other two. Have you read Martin Gilbert's History of the 20th Century? Brilliant, like all his work.
Hey hun, Yeah i figure too that the pkg was on that flight :( makes me so grrrrr so much for good postal service, teehee ;) anyways my friend can u re email me when you get a chance to your snail mail addie to make sure its the right one? thanks hun, luv ya, miss ya much! It has been nuts here with stampede going on and everything, but today its the last day until next year yipeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! then the city gets back to normal for a while. lol ! hope to hear from you soon..... hugssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss, God bless you, luv, Tracy
Posted by: Tracy at July 18, 2005 08:42 AMHey, sorry haven't been reading other stonesoups much recently. Hope stuff is ok. It is exciting that Sok is (possibly) pregnant. The puppies will be gorgeous!
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