Inspired by Toni's lovely entry about marriage, and the fact that Lee and my five year anniversary was two days ago and neither of us remembered.....
Well, we both remembered about a month ago, and were like. Huh, our anniversary is soon. Then last night we thought about how long five years is and Lee realised we're getting older and then he bit my hand. Quite hard. Really hurt, like how I imagine being nipped by a horse must feel.
So, Lee and I have been together for a big chunk of time. We're all de facto and stuff.
I don't want to leave. I get too much good stuff here. I want to give good stuff back...I miss him when he's not around and I snoogle him when he is around. Sure there's little things that bug me, but there's things that bug him too.
He doesn't close the kitchen cupboards or the dishwasher door. I forget to turn the fire wall back on after playing neopets. None of the little things add up to much once you've moaned a bit and had apologies.
We don't fight, it hurts too much. I am not good at fighting. I'll get my sulk on sometimes, but I'll tell him how to make it better if he doesn't figure it out himself.
I am not leaving. This is love and it's important and vital.
Posted by jenni at July 1, 2004 05:06 PM