I still cant get past the idea that sex is always a negotiation not a right you impose on another.

A+B+C of the ABC will always fail because there is no freedom of choice.

sex is often a desperate financial transaction in Africa and parts of Asia. You're right, there is no choice. And I doubt very much if there is a simple one-slogan-fits-all solution... each individual life has its own tragedy and its own potential for triumph or misery. Damn I wish there was something I could do though. It's like watching a slow-motion train wreck.